Improbable Synchronicities.
letting my life be easy. one dragon at a time.
“ooo, maybe I’ll host a dragon pairing ritual when I’m back in Adelaide, too. aahhh! I dunno!! Maybe not…..”
Seconds later, I hung up the phone from the voice message I was leaving a lovely friend who had just paid me to pair her with her dragon, and I look out the window and LO AND BEHOLD….a dragon fly.
12 of them.
3 feet to 12 feet in size, made of metal and painted gold.
My car passed them right as I pressed end on that voice message.
Half an hour later: a dragon fly on a t-shirt.
ten minutes later: a dragon fly tattoo on a (very) well-sculpted bicep.
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HI :) I’m Cara - I pair dragons with people as a fun little hobby of mine.
It all started in Oct 2025 when I met my dragons through a session with a crystal skull. In short, these are beings of joy, peace, freedom, and love who have arrived here to help life humanity out of fear and into love.
No small feat, clearly - but did you hear me say that they’re DRAGONS…??
They’re pretty powerful.
And since I first met them, they’ve completely changed my life, and impacted a whole heck of a lot of others, too.
The differences I’ve seen in myself have been absolutely phenomenal - I’m showing up with more energy in my business than ever before, I seem to have a capacity for momentum and direction that has always, always been lacking. My romantic partners have all levelled up their game immensely. And I’ve even been connected with the very people/methodology that was the very last piece in my trauma-healing journey.
These dragons don’t fk around, I kid you not.
I don’t even have to consciously tune into them every day, either. Once they’re here with you/me, they’re here. They’ll never stop working for us, and these synchronicities like the one that just happened when I got off the phone, just keep happening!
I can either pair you with your dragon in a 1:1 ritual (just you and I … and your dragon. Over the phone or in person, makes no difference) or in a group setting. And when I host my dragon pairings in a group setting, I call them a dragon fly.
So when I got off the phone just now, with a girl from Adelaide, when I was talking about my plans for an upcoming trip to Adelaide and I saw no less than a dozen dragon flies in the next hour or two…. okaaayyyyyy I’m listeniiinnnngggg.
I’m listening.
I’ve learned the listen.
Because when I do….?
Life is a WHOLE lot easier for me than when I try to stress and manage (and micromanage) every single last little detail. And, you know what ? - it often turns out a heck of a lot better than if I were to plan it myself, anyhow.
hi, love
My name is Cara West 🐉 I’m a Tantric Love, Sex & Open-Relating Coach, an Author...and oh, I talk to dragons, too.
I’m currently working on my second book - How TWO Be Naked, which is a first-hand account of shifting my marriage from monogamy to nonmonogamy (turns out… it was an incredibly valuable part of my healing-from-childhood-sexual-trauma journey. Hunh. Whodda thunk!!)
Towards the end of 2025, I was connected to a race of Celestial Joy Beings that most often look like dragons - they’re here to help raise us sweet little humans from the mire of negative energy we’ve become stuck in up to the HIGHER energies of peace, freedom, joy and love.
Join me on First Steps to Jupiter where I write about dragons, nonmonogamy, tantra, and sexuality (along with a little bit of my semi-nomadic life thrown in, too!)
Xoxo Cara and the Dragons

